after the near-death incident on sat nite.. sun afternn my mum went to visit grandma agn.. the doc told her to b prepared.. cuz grandma wun b able to survive sun or mon.. sun nite, went to visit tgt with my mum and bro.. but grandma already unconcious for days..
mon afternn originally wanted to meet my mum at sgh after my lessons to visit grandma but morning while still having my lessons, she's gone.. initially i dun feel anything when i received the msg.. but while i was smsing my friends and dear, i felt like crying.. T_T
as its unnatural death, so we couldn't collect the body till tues.. and on tues, it took quite long as they feel that there's a need for post mortem to be conducted.. haix.. tues afternn she's droven to the parlor.. me and mum went home to change and catch some lunch before proceeding down to the parlor with my bro and father..
wake was held from tues till fri morning before going for cremation on fri noon..
my mum have another sis for my maternal grandparents in singapore.. well, we're not in contact for some very good reasons.. =x
1st day afternn (tues) that sis family wasn't around for the prayer.. =.=
throughout the wake period.. my family is the one busying arnd.. their family, except her elder daughter and son-in-law.. the rest is really KNS!! the 2nd daughter and son always 不见人影..
2nd day afternn got some kind souls offered to "sing" for grandma, and we participate in "singing" tgt.. the sis and husband just entertain their friends while, my mum continue "singing" eventhough her friend also came.. WTH lar~!!
3rd day nite.. the monk came to say prayer.. my family hold joss sticks.. their family christians dun want hold joss sticks.. oki ar.. no prob.. just bow.. but guess wat.. my dad saw (i was blocked by my 2 brothers standing in front of me.. =P) that at times they dun even bow lor.. argh!!
4th day.. prayer before cremation.. i was damn fed-up.. the children behave like the one lying in the coffin is of no relation to them.. damn "sia lan"!!
although not say very good bonding with her, but my family tried doing everything we can for her funeral.. me and my mum cried alot when sending her on her last journey.. that kind of feeling of sending someone u knw off is really bad.. T_T
during everynite, we ordered catering for our consumption and of cuz most importantly for visitors.. when my family eat, we were damn scared that there wun b enuf.. then dun dare eat liao.. then whole nite busy here and there.. that sis husband.. keep "accompanying" his friends to eat.. when the food come, we open to remove the aluminium foil nia, then their family "run" over for the food liao.. i heard that the sis even took off with some chicken essence meant for grandma consumption to boost her recovery so as to give to her husband to drink!!
although everynite we get to rest and slp at home, we were all exhausted.. from slping late and waking early.. plus being emotionally & physically tired..
to end off the note.. thanks to all those that came.. and for those who didn't but send ur regard.. i'm really thankful.. glad to have u peeps as friends..
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